10 Skills That Make a DANGEROUS Man (2023)

Introduction

These simple habits will change your life and make you a dangerous man. Renowned martial artist Bruce Lee once said, “the most dangerous man is the one who listens, thinks, and observes.” In this context, a dangerous man - someone with real potential to grow, compete, and thrive – is a patient listener and acute observer who approaches the world with an open mind and a courageous spirit.

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Hey everyone, and welcome to TopThink.

Today.

We will learn about ten skills that make you a dangerous man., Now, let’s begin.

Renowned, martial artist, Bruce, Lee once said, “the.

Most dangerous man is the one who listens, thinks, and observes.” In.

This context, a dangerous man - someone with real potential to grow, compete, and thrive – is a patient listener and acute observer who approaches the world with an open mind and a courageous spirit., This definition, may clash with your understanding of dangerous men in our society.

Oftentimes.

We idolize men who think with their fists and flaunt, their masculinity.

These men are loud and opinionated, aggressive and egotistical.

But all of these selfish traits are evidence, not of confidence and courage, but fear and insecurity.

A man who has nothing to fear does not need to lash out and attack or intimate, others., Of, course.

Most men never realize the role that fear plays in their lives, rarely ever doing the one thing that makes a man, truly dangerous., They fail to step back and gain perspective on themselves, their environment, and the choices.

They make every day.

When.

You find perspective, and discover your weaknesses.

You might realize just how much fear affects your decisions and your lifestyle.

You might also realize how little you know about the world, or how badly you’ve been treating the people around you.

You may think of yourself as strong and intimidating.

You may even be successful and accomplished.

But.

The simple fact is there’s nothing dangerous about you.

Remember.

When we use the word dangerous, we’re talking about people like Bruce Lee who dedicated their lives to self-improvement, discipline, and reflection.

These are the men who made a difference in the world, men who are respected and remembered, years after they’re gone.

Why? Because, unlike most men, they developed a handful of essential skills that gave them the tools to reach greater heights.

We’re, not talking about technical skills, like building a table or unclogging, a sink.

Instead.

We’re exploring what are known as soft skills, – essential traits that make you dangerous in all fields, disciplines, and environments.

If.

You can learn even a couple of these skills.

You can become a truly dangerous.

Man., 1., An, Abundance, Mindset, A, dangerous.

Man doesn’t rely on any one thing to make him happy.

He doesn’t cling to jobs or relationships as if they’re the only opportunities he’ll ever have.

Instead.

He maintains what we call an “abundance mindset.” He operates.

As if there is no shortage of opportunities in his life.

And thus has the freedom to pursue the best possible option., For example, let’s say, you’re working at an office job that makes you unhappy.

Some.

People may cling to that job for years, fearful, they’ll never find something as stable or comfortable.

On.

The other hand, someone with an abundance mindset doesn’t hesitate to move on.

Why? Because.

They’re not afraid of scarcity.

To any dangerous man.

The world is full of opportunities, as long as you’re willing to pursue them., 2., Situational, Awareness Are, you constantly aware of your surroundings? In every environment, from workplaces to social settings, a dangerous man pays attention to what is happening in the world around him.

While.

Some people keep their eyes glued to the floor.

He keeps his eyes up and his head on a swivel, thereby protecting himself from surprises of any variety.

Situation awareness allows you to consistently stay two steps ahead of the competition.

No, one will ever catch you off.

Guard.

No.

One will ever throw you into a panic.

If.

You learn to be situationally aware at all times.

You can and will be prepared for anything.

3., The, Learning, Process, Many.

Men are only interested in doing what they know.

They, avoid everything unfamiliar and restrict themselves to a handful of comfortable activities.

On.

The other hand, a dangerous man is a master of learning and trying new things.

He is willing to do things that are new and unfamiliar, because he has the confidence to build his expertise from the bottom up.

He, isn’t afraid to make mistakes or experience failure.

Because each of those failures makes him stronger.

If.

You want to be a dangerous man.

You need to master the learning process.

Be, a student long before you try to be a teacher.

Be, an amateur, even if some people might call you an expert.

Because, the truth is…, the most dangerous men always start from the bottom and work their way to the top.

4.

Physical, Discipline, Many of the most dangerous.

Men are strong and highly athletic, people who have trained for years in physical disciplines, like martial, arts., However.

It’s not your physical prowess that makes a man dangerous;.

It’s the lessons you learn while developing your physical form., Improving, your body teaches you to overcome obstacles, achieve personal bests.

And finally, defeat your own bad habits.

Every hour.

You spend running, lifting, or otherwise challenging.

Your body is an hour dedicated to personal growth and improvement.

If.

You develop your body with care and intention.

You can learn to master your impulses and channel your strength, giving you the power to achieve more than ever.

5., Insightful, Observations, We think of dangerous men as confident and successful; however, much of their success comes from their powers of observation.

A.

Dangerous man is an insightful observer.

He pays attention to his environment, community, and social trends.

He’s interested in and curious about everything.

And it’s from that curiosity that he gathers invaluable insights about the world around him.

If.

You want to be a dangerous man, get in the habit of observing your reality.

As.

You look and listen, pay attention to lessons you can incorporate into your own life.

Because.

A dangerous man is always searching for ways to learn and improve., 6., Welcoming, Fulfillment, If.

You want to become a confident and dangerous man.

You need to do something so many men fail to do.

You need to set yourself up for success by welcoming happiness and fulfillment into your life.

Instead of boxing, yourself into smaller bubbles and narrow definitions, try to expand your horizons with all kinds of experiences.

You never expected to have.

Any man, who is courageous enough to live freely and openly is the kind of man.

We should all respect and admire.

Because.

He understands how to find happiness and satisfaction in this life.

He doesn’t stubbornly cling to ideas or guard.

His ambitions.

A, really dangerous man is open to everything.

He welcomes, any kind of fulfillment into his life with open arms, because no one truly understands what life has in store.

7., The, Social, Fortress, On, your path toward success and satisfaction.

You will encounter people who want to bring you down, people who don’t see your vision or appreciate what you bring to the table.

When that happens, you must know how to defend yourself, your relationships, and your goals.

I’m, not talking about physical defenses, though that can be a valuable skill too.

In.

This case, I’m talking about social defenses., A, dangerous man, defends himself from threats to his job, his environment, and his relationships.

How? By surrounding himself with strong and stable connections., Every, dangerous.

Man, cultivates, deep, loyal friendships, nurtured through trust and integrity.

Not.

Only does this network provide support in times of need.

But it also gives him the confidence to take risks, make mistakes, and break out of his comfort, zone., With, a fortress behind you.

You don’t need the approval of others.

You.

Don’t need to worry.

Whether people are going to like you.

As long as your fortress is strong.

You have all the support you need to become a dangerous.

Man., 8., Selfless, Understanding, A.

Dangerous man knows one important fact, above else., He is not the only person in the world that matters.

Unlike, many people, who are self-centered and arrogant, a dangerous man takes the time to understand other people.

He has a strong grasp of human nature and pays close attention to subtle changes in their behavior.

He.

Notices body, language, emotional, cues, and facial expressions.

He searches for the meaning behind people’s actions, and practices empathy to understand their point of view.

In other words, a dangerous man, understands the ideas and feelings of others, because he genuinely cares about more than himself.

9.

The, High, Road, We often mistake, the most dangerous people for over-confident bully-type personalities, who abuse their strength to hurt or intimidate, others.

People like this do exist, but they’re anything but confident, wise, or respectable.

Most of the time.

They’re deeply insecure to the point of punishing others for their personal failures.

Unfortunately.

Not many people are strong or courageous enough to stand up for themselves.

But, a truly dangerous man.

Never lets these bullies get the best of him.

That means never stooping to their level., A, dangerous, man, avoids violence and oppression at all costs, seeking peace.

And compromise, whenever possible.

He is calm in the face of aggression because the strongest men always take the high road.

10., Concise, Communication, A.

Dangerous man is a good communicator.

He knows how to express his ideas, clearly and concisely and doesn’t hesitate to explore his honest, feelings.

Moreover.

He is never ashamed of what he thinks or feels.

He puts himself out there with confidence, knowing full well that other people may not accept what he has to say.

But.

Most of the time, his confidence, sways others onto his side.

If.

You want to become a dangerous, man, practice communicating what you want, think, and feel.

Be, direct., Be, clear and concise.

Soon.

People will start listening to what you have to say.

And that makes you more dangerous than you think.

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